''Good day my people,

My wife gave birth to my first child four months ago, but before then we dated for about three years although it was a long distance relationship.

Now,  she came to spend holiday with me with my baby. I noticed that she does receive strange calls. I have warned her about some numbers i do see on her phone and there guy in particular I am not comfortable with. This guy was her toaster while we were dating back then.


I asked her to delete the number, but it seems they still talk on phone when I am not around.

A guy called yesterday and when she was receiving the call I noticed that she was not speaking freely;she was responding with okay, ehn, hunmm, i heard etc.

So i collected the phone and asked ''who is speaking?''

The guy responded with his name.

I asked "do u know she is married?"

The guy later apologised and i cut the phone and talked sense into my wife's head, but later the guy called to ask her if I am angry and she said "no".

My wife now keeps malice with me and has not spoken to me since then.

Last night the number i asked her to delete called but i didn't pick it. After two minutes i called back and he refused to pick nor call back.

I am planning to call the guy with my personal line to know who he is and what's between him and my wife.

Please kindly advice me. Thanks"