A man of vision is not necessarily a potentially rich man.

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Often times when a lady says "I want a man with vision" what goes through her mind is that she wants a man that has good plans to make good money in the future.

Before you marry a man you must understand what he wants from life and trust me, some men have vision that have no affiliations to riches, and you should also understand that no matter how dogged and resilient that guy may be in actualizing his dreams, some visions never come to pass. You have to try to understand these facts and decide if you are still interested in being with him regardless.



Some guys have a vision to be activists, some missionaries, some to serve someone, some to be a chef,some to play talking drums and so on but the truth is that a man's vision is his vision so whenever ladies use these words "I want a man of vision" they must understand that some men don't even have vision to be rich but to be fulfilled and fulfillment in your career is never the same as riches.

People who changed the history of the world were not wealthy. Men like

Isaac newton,
Nelson Mandela,
Christopher Columbus
Mikhail Gorbachev
Winston Churchill
Woodrow Wilson
William Shakespeare
Martin Luther King

So when next a lady says "she wants a man with vision" please don't think that every visionary man is keen on riches so ask that guy well and decide if you are willing to stand by him or just take a walk and allow a lady who will go all the way with him come into his life.

And for the guys, please don't be scared to open up to that lady on your real vision no matter how silly or lowly it may be. Remember that following your passion and fulfilling your vision is the greatest success and the greatest wealth you can ever acquire but you must also understtand that no matter your vision,it is important for you to still perform your primary financial duty as the head of the family.

Hope this makes sense.