Hi Boss lady, hope you good? Trust you on that. I have been reading your blog since last year even though i am yet to comment. Please do help me share this in your blog, a real deal that happened on the 30th of Nov to a friend of mine. I will try to be precise with this.

Here it goes; ‎a friend of mine (only son) met a girl/lady, and days turned to weeks, weeks to months.

Dude thought he's met with his wife (even though she's asthmatic) finally.He paid this lady's bills, paid for her younger brothers fees too, rented a shop for her, paid for any kind of treatment for her ill-health (asthma), loved her and did everything humanly possible for her. He loved her with his life.



My friend had gone to meet the girls parent and did the formal introduction, bought drinks too and his planning for the traditional wedding on 20th of December. On the girl's part she has been welcomed by my friend's parents and even allowed her to cook for the family (family of a boy and three girls).

To cut it short my friend on the fateful day received a phone call by a good friend to leave everything his doing at moment to come to a hotel like that. On arrival the dude pretended to be waiting for a friend and sat at the receptions office. To his surprise he saw his wife-to-be with a guy cheerful and holding hands coming out from a room.

The girl was shocked on sighting him, and of course, devil has to be blamed.

Now my question is: to the dudes what will you do if you were in his shoes?

And to the ladies: does the girl have any justifiable reason for her disgraceful act???

NB: I have seen worst scenario where a girl did abortion for a man she called her boyfriend a week to her wedding, tho‎ugh the husband wasn't aware.